I will like to start this post with the phrase I normally close my blog posts - because of it's relevance to today's subject.
"Don't worry choose to be Happy".
The key word for me there is the power of your CHOICE.
If you can master your emotions then you can master your life positively.
Your emotions and it's expression there of is a function of your God given humanity.
How you use and apply it is fundamental to your success in the journey of life.
"One of the hardest life lessons is letting go.
Change isn’t easy, but it’s better than being stuck!" RG
Many of us if we will dare to be honest with ourselves are carrying some form of emotional psychological pain and burden which we cannot share with others right from our childhood up until our adulthood and old age that we may or may not be aware of but still stifles our growth and personal development.
No wonder we wallow in unhappiness and lose our joy and self confidence .
Now is the time to debunk all those emotional weight you carry and that easily besets you.
You have carried them for so long and such heavy burden of pain deeply entrenched in your subconscious with sufferings indescribable.
I hope you will be honest to yourself by acknowledging your status in this respect and are willing to be healed of them.
Don’t live in denial or unconscious of that challenge that has kept you where you are now and that you are unhappy about.
Now, today is the day and time to let Go-
By Focusing On What Matters And Who Matters.
This surely requires your willingness and readiness to avail yourself of this menace that steals your Joy and Peace of Mind.
Many of us are bugged down by emotional wounds that we have carried over many decades (knowingly and unknowingly) and years of deep unexplained emotional pain that held us bound and limits our progress and growth thereby affecting negatively our vertical and horizontal relationships and careers.
Deeply enshrined sustaining emotional baggage that have become part of our personality and self image.
Some leading to self limiting beliefs.
How do we resolve these inability to engage the power of our emotional intelligence and avail ourselves of alternative practical tools to help us overcome these challenges?
Re channel your emotional energy towards those things and feelings that brings you enthusiasm without clinging to those emotions that drain your emotional energies so we channel them towards fruitful and engaging positive goals and aspirations.
Learn to let the toxic thoughts and words pass without engaging them but passively let them just pass.
Don’t give them your energy whilst not ignoring (resisting) them totally.
Just let them be.
Exercising the power within by expressing your will power to take control of your life.
This comes by self conscious commitment, determination and focus to take your life back and by seeking professional help whe it matters.
Show yourself approved by regular practice and continuous engagement of application.
As a believer I strongly recommend praying along with all the help one may seek along with self belief that no situation is beyond recovery and resolution.
Guard your heart with all diligence for there lies the issues of life
“Keep thy heart with all diligence; For out of it are the issues of life. Put away from thee a froward mouth, And perverse lips put far from thee. Let thine eyes look right on, And let thine eyelids look straight before thee. Ponder the path of thy feet, And let all thy ways be established. Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: Remove thy foot from evil.”
Proverbs 4:23-27 KJV
Now listen me my friend and learn-
“Most people are so focused on those who aren’t in their corner that they ignore the people who are in their corner.
The result is that they’re never happy and eventually burn out those who are supporting them.”
Focus on WHAT matters.
Focus on WHO matters-Kevin DeShazo
Don’t worry choose to be Happy
You are blessed to be a blessing.
I am your friend and Encourager
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